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[gem_35]

why is life so ****????

[cazzz1975]

its a rollercoaster, you have to have the bad and the good otherwise how would you ever learn life's lessons?

the experiences shape you as a person

[gem_35]

good? i dont get good. I wish i did!

[Quoi]

wassup gem - anything in particular?

[MONTCRIEFF49]

boring

dont know the answer to that
some good days and bad x

hi gem x

[gem_35]

to be honest just life in general. i really dont know why i bother withanyone or do anything, it all just gets thrown back in my face and im sick of it now!

[sleepyj]

i feel same most time ....everything i do say always upset some a s s hole

[tiggerblue10]

Welcome to my world!

[gem_35]

at least it aint just me then!

[sleepyj]

gem you me and millions of others feel like that ,,,just smile and stuff lot of them

[tiggerblue10]

Thats why I'm on AB nearly 24/7 (when not working of course - don't have time at work).

[Quoi]

I can sense I may be chucked off this thread for blatant (semi) cheerfulness but come on tell me whats flipped your switch today

[gem_35]

its just a combination of a lot of things that have happened over the last mth or so. . . . now i just feel really down a sooo ****** off and angry!

[Quoi]

Gem - just trying to send my dog for you to kick but it wont stop struggling while I am trying to wrap it!

[gem_35]

you actually made me laugh. bless ya x

[raysparx1]

gem, maybe you don't want to hear it, but you have to get things in perspective, we all have crappy times, but you aren't dying are you, it is 5 years yesterday my son nearly died at work after a real bad accident, you must look forward, and deal with what life throws at you, I know for some that is hard to do for others it is easy, think of the positives in your life, make a list of the good and the bad, and I bet the good outweighs the bad by quite a distance,
chin up and try to smile, good luck and take it easy, Ray

[gem_35]

ray, thanks for that, maybe i will take your advice. i know everyone has ups and downs. thanks again xx

[raysparx1]

did I sound snotty with my answer gem? sorry If I did, try to smile, I know at times it is hard, if you ever want to talk to anyone on here just add them as a friend and then you can talk about things to somebody from outside, good luck, Ray xx

[sleepyj]

very true ray ,,,,always think of some one worse of gem ...

[Quoi]

yes sleepyj - like my dog! I assume I can keep it now ?

[gem_35]

thanks so much peeps. think i just need some encouragement.
ray, you didnt sound snotty x
quoi yea you can keep ya dog, lol
thanks again x