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why o why did i do it
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texted ex last night after a few drinks - hadnt been in touch for over 4 months and all my good work is undone - he ignored me too! can anyone make me feel less of a schmuck....?
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Dont beat yourself up too much hun. The amount of times I've done this... ugh. I cant even tell you.
Its just one of those things. The thing is he has probably almost done it himself. Just remind yourself of that. and it wasnt you that did it, it was drunken you! Takes time but you'll forget all about the idiot.
Its just one of those things. The thing is he has probably almost done it himself. Just remind yourself of that. and it wasnt you that did it, it was drunken you! Takes time but you'll forget all about the idiot.
It seems to me that we are all in the same boat if we are single,,you can go ages and ages and even more ages without even a thought,then something happens(usually beer induced) and whammo your with your ex,,,,sex with your ex is something but nothing in the end but considered acceptable for some reason, and you wonder why you just did it,because you feel the same about them after as you did before...mixture of weakness,beer and loneliness...Well thats what i think anyway,could be a load of bollox really ;-)
I've done it too. You get past weeks/months of no contact, then you have a few bevvies and, yup the texting finger starts.
Don't worry hun, you're not the first, and wont be the last.
See this link, and then read the book!
http://www.randomhouse.com/broadway/breakup/it scalledabreakup.htm
Don't worry hun, you're not the first, and wont be the last.
See this link, and then read the book!
http://www.randomhouse.com/broadway/breakup/it scalledabreakup.htm
Conversely, you could look at it as a positive as I recently did. I still have found it hard to move on from my breakup and sent a text to my ex knowing full well she would not respond. As predicted she didn�t and obviously means that she has moved on with her life which in a sadistic kind of way has made me try and do the same. No point investing emotionally in the past, time to look to the present and future. Bring on 2008!
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