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why do some men swear and shout at their partners? Is it a control thing?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I never asked my ex why he did but i know it was because he was a bully and wanted to control me, i could'nt wear make-up and had to dress like a tomboy and he even wanted me to cut my family off! He was violent and when he was in that frame of mind his expression changed and he metamorphosised into a monster and i was petrified and i am a fiery person!
He used to call me W*ore all the time and other names even though it turned out later, when i was pregnant with our second baby, that i found out he was having an affair with his ex!!
So now i'm alone with 2 young children, 3 yrs and 4 weeks old but i'd rather be this way than live with someone like him, i love my independance and the fact that i run my home and no-one can say a thing.
He used to call me W*ore all the time and other names even though it turned out later, when i was pregnant with our second baby, that i found out he was having an affair with his ex!!
So now i'm alone with 2 young children, 3 yrs and 4 weeks old but i'd rather be this way than live with someone like him, i love my independance and the fact that i run my home and no-one can say a thing.
Dont know the answer to this. My ex husband shouted, swore and verbally abused me for 20 years whenever I pi**ed him off, the traffic was bad, the alarm clock didnt go off, his clothes weren't laid out ready, his car wouldnt start ... you get the picture.
I put up with it for far too long, my kids heard and saw it and grew up seeing this lack of respect. One of my boys shouts and swears when angered. The other doesn't.
My ex was spoilt by his mum and then I allowed it to continue into adult life. It could be that spoilt little boy throwing teddy out of pram thing but it gets very boring when it continues long into adulthood.
If he is going to do it, give as good as you get, be proud and dont let him grind you down.
Best of luck xx
I put up with it for far too long, my kids heard and saw it and grew up seeing this lack of respect. One of my boys shouts and swears when angered. The other doesn't.
My ex was spoilt by his mum and then I allowed it to continue into adult life. It could be that spoilt little boy throwing teddy out of pram thing but it gets very boring when it continues long into adulthood.
If he is going to do it, give as good as you get, be proud and dont let him grind you down.
Best of luck xx