Do I Message Him Or Let Him Message Me?

abbeylee90 | 14:40 Wed 17th Apr 2024 | Family & Relationships

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I'm meant to be going with guy I went on a date with on Saturday tonight do I message him if I don't hear from him or let him message me?

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abbeylee90

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I told my auntie about the guy

douglas9401

That'll be the auntie stall device kicking in.

abbeylee90

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Found out first time my cousin met his girlfriend she went to his

Pete65

His what?

abbeylee90

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House sorry

Pete65

Ah, I see, thank you, Abbey!

abbeylee90

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What do I do if he don't ask me out this week?

Neveracrossword

Nothing.

abbeylee90

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Does it mean he not interested?

Neveracrossword

That seems quite likely.

Karamia

Did you let him pay for whole date the last 2 times you went out?

The advice was to insist on going halves at least on the second date. Maybe he thinks you expect him to pay every time he asks about a date and can't afford it.

You could suggest a meet up somewhere and absolutely pay your own way if you go out together.

abbeylee90

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I said I owed him other day

Karamia

The fact that you have told him you are off for whole week from 5th May and also told him you owe him a date, yet he still not trying to arrange a meet up, suggests he has gone off the idea or at least cooled towards you. Only you can be one to realy gauge this from your discussions or messages, but usually people can't wait to get together when they really like each other. Keep your options open by chatting to other guys.

abbeylee90

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He said about meeting up eventually but the bit where I'm stuck is why is he still talking to me?

Neveracrossword

Abbey, it might be just like you and bearded guy - you didn't want to stop having anything to do with him until you saw how things went with the latest guy!

Cloverjo

It's all a bit complicated for my sad old brain. I'm glad we didn't have this when I was young.

Abbey, if you like the man text/message/whatever him and say 'That was fun. Shall we meet up again?' If he doesn't reply, well, move on to the next guy.