Has Anyone Ever Been In My Situation? If So Did I Get Resolved

[abbeylee90]

So I'm in a really bad place as I'm in an underpaid job that I don't like, no house, no car or partner. I never had enough money either even though I got a good socail life but I just feel like I'm worth nothing 

[abbeylee90]

I told them where I'm working and if goes well then probably quit the laundry 

[Neveracrossword]

Thanks, Abbey. If it goes well,  you'll HAVE to quit the laundry, I can't see you coping with a full-time job and a part-time one too!

Are you happy to just leave the place, after taking leave, without giving any notice at all?  

[abbeylee90]

Neveracrossword of course I won't do the two jobs.

I'll give a week notice at least.

It's daunting so much to learn 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you said 'If it goes well, I'll probably quit the laundry' - 'probably' suggests there's a chance you wouldn't. Anyway, wait and see how you cope with the tills, customers etc.

[abbeylee90]

I've worked with customers all my life but will see be so different from being part time for months

[Neveracrossword]

Ok.

[newmodarmy]

Sit down with your mum and dad to discuss what help you can get

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/guides-to-support-and-services/learning-disability-support/

[abbeylee90]

Maybe I'm nervous because of my past experience with learning new skills

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, I'm sure there must be helpful information in many of the guides, links etc that people have given you here over the past few months. After your difficulties in learning new skills in all of your jobs last year, you should take any help that is given, suggested. PS If you have worked with customers 'all your life', I'd expect, hope, some of those skills would come back. 

[Hazlinny]

Abbey/  Many people, I am sure, are a bit nervous about learning new skills - I've been there but always found other staff more than willing to guide me at first.  Try not to worry.

[abbeylee90]

It's going OK going to forget stuff 

[abbeylee90]

Was shattered today so not as good as yesterday but my 2nd day

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, the first day - maybe even the first week - in a new place will always be tiring(as you know from all your other first days). Remind yourself of how much you need and want a full-time job....with full-time pay! 

[abbeylee90]

Of course I'm thinking about money 

[Neveracrossword]

Good, Abbey - use those thoughts to spur you on into giving  a good impression, getting yourself a full-time permanent position. 

[abbeylee90]

So hopefully going on date tomorrow 

[abbeylee90]

When and how do I tell my mum about working at selco?

[Redhelen72]

Mum good news I have a full time job 

[Auntypoll]

mum, I'm starting a new job at selco, its more hours so more money and I'll be able to pay you back for the money you've lent me.

[abbeylee90]

My trial ends next so far good feedback