There Were Some Posts Recently About The Porn Star Ron Jeremy

[nailit]

and about the sexual assault allegations made against him.
Quiet a few people commented.

So hands up...
have you ever seen a Ron Jeremy flick?

(Or on the other hand, have you never seen a porno in your life...
and if not, why not?)

[nailit]

Porn is certainly targeted (mostly) towards males.
But Ive had more than one relationship where females have enjoyed
porn and acting out.

Its not a ''Dirty Old Man'' thing!
Women, (Or at least some women who enjoy their sexuality)
will share with their man..


Evolutionary psychology dictates that men will
spread their sperm wherever they can.
Porn is a way of containing it to what society expects.
(A family unit)

All men fantasize about other females...
And all females fantasize about stronger alpha males...

Freud was correct when he said that there are ALWAYS
at least FOUR in a bed!!

[naomi24]

He wasn’t right you know, nailit .. and don’t assume you know which women enjoy their sexuality. Some of us just prefer the real thing to mucky fantasy.

[nailit]

//and don’t assume you know which women enjoy their sexuality.//
I don't ....and nowhere ever have i suggested that.

// Some of us just prefer the real thing to mucky fantasy//
Fantasy does'nt have to be mucky!

[andy-hughes]

Naomi - are you able to discuss other adults enjoying themselves in ways you clearly think are wrong, without that condescending Mary Whitehouse sneer?

[nailit]

Mary Whitehouse??
NOW...That was one woman who couldn't
enjoy life!
Sex was sin etc.
Always felt the need to tell the rest of us
that fact as well.

[naomi24]

Nailit, Watching other people getting at it is, in my opinion, mucky, and moreover indicates an inadequacy that I can’t respect. I find it quite pathetic really.

[Sqad]

naomi although I respect your opinion, it is not straightforward in the wider picture.
Watching other people perform is a well known fanatasy/pervertion which is not uncommon called Voyeurism......well known and well documented.

[Zacs-Master]

Do you just like it missionary, Naomi?

[naomi24]

Sqad, I know.

[FatticusInch]

Zacs-Master
//Do you just like it missionary, Naomi?//

Splutter!!

[andres]

sqad---voyeurism? Don't you mean being a 'peeping tom'? People used to get locked for that .

[Sqad]

andres no, two different concepts.
Voyeurism consensual and mutually beneficial.
"Peeping Tom"....exactly the opposite.

[pixie374]

Sqad, your response that it can be "educational", is frankly, just scary- unless you mean as a warning?
The traditional old type, is purely designed for male desires, and nothing to do with actual real life.
As someone said earlier, the female porn is very different, more about sensuality, consent and mutual.
I have no real objections- as long as people realise it is an act. It in no way translates to real life.

[pixie374]

Unless you meant for male gay couples? In which case, I don't know.

[Sqad]

Pixie......you may have misunderstood my use of the word educational.
I used it in the term that should have indicated male development in whatever way you would like to use it.

A phase, moment in time, that would leave our young men/women better equiped to face the modern world.

[pixie374]

I know. I am just hoping you meant, as a warning of how not to be?
I think it goes without saying, that any man trying to emulate a porn video- would be... awful...
Women's desires, are entirely different, so, it depends who you are trying to please...

[Sqad]

Pixie, yes I agree with you, however the psychology of sex is far more complex in women than in men and some women reverse the popular belief and actually are turned on by porn, both homosexual and heterosexual porn.

[pixie374]

I fully agree, sqad- I'm only pointing out how different the desires and expectations are.
The words "porn for women" have consistently been the most "googled" 3 words for the last 7 years.
That does not suggest that whatever "education" males think they have, is working :-)

[pixie374]

And actually, a woman's sex drive, is as simple as a man's. The physical side is purely about fertile times. The emotional side, is how you treat her.

[Peter Pedant]

this one
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evan_Seinfeld
is the only mainstream actor ( Oz, plays one of the inmates) who goes into porn
BigBoy foo-foo or someone

and now sings ( presumably with underpants on)