What are your reasons for having children?

[ChatwithJacq]

Am i thinking too much?

Cheers

Jacq

[tradey]

my reasons are,one coz i love my hubby and wanted to have children which was from us both and ive always wanted to be a mum love kids,well everyone elses ha ha only joking

[ChatwithJacq]

Thanks...the thing is i love my husband so much i don't wnt to share him!

[noxlumos]

Are you saying that you think you might become jealous of your own child?

[ChatwithJacq]

No way. I'm saying i love being with my husband so much that i know the time we will spend together would be different.

[rhona_j]

I can totally see where you are coming from ChatwithJacq.
I've had thoughts like this too.
I don't have children yet, but I suppose the best way to look at it would be that yes your relationship is going to change, but it's a whole new phase in your lives and you'll be sharing it together.
Sorry I can't really help, I just wanted to let you know that you're not the only one to have had this thought.

[ChatwithJacq]

Thanks Rhona J

I really feel that the majority of people are very black or white ie either people really want them or really don't. I am very pink and purple!

Cheers

Jx