Friend

[ellen_16]

OK, I've got a best friend. He's 25 and he's gay. He is gorgeous to me and I love him so much, but he is not happy, because he feels he's alone as he doesnt have a bf. What can I do because its hurting me when hes unhappy I just want him to find someone, do you think he will :(

[honeyblonde]

If you fancy him someone else will it works like that

[4getmenot]

Hey lots of people are single and makes no difference whether he's gay or not. He will find someone when the time is right and not when you want him to.

[Rubyrose]

Well for a start he is not going to meet anyone with that attitude! He can never fully be in a healthy relationship if thats how he feels. He needs to be comfortable with himself first and then and only then will he be in a good enough position to be with someone else!

I am loving single life at the moment and am having the time of my life.... its full of endless possibilities. Tell him to get out there and start having fun. He may be alone for the rest of his life... who knows... but if thats the case he should start enjoying it instead of moping about!

[foxydivano1]

awww Ellen, I think you sound like a lovely friend. Your mate is lucky to have such a caring and considerate mucca.

As for your friend, he needs to become comfortable with himself, and by doing this his confidence will grow. How long as he openly realised/spoken about his sexuality? If he's only just come out, he will prob just want a bf to prove to people that 'yes he really is gay'. If this is the case, he needs to take time to know what he really wants and to know himself better. You can not do this for him, however I am sure you will give him your full support.

Only when the time feels right and he is ready will be be confident and ready to embark on a new relationship. Good luck to both you and your friend.

Foxy x