Thanks for those answers. My cousin actually lives in Seattle but his intended lives in Portland.
Since asking the question, I've spoken to his dad and I'm not convinced I should go because her family are mega rich. I mean MEGA rich. And the plan now is to have the wedding in Carmel.
To give you some idea of the money factor, her family have told my Uncle to book his flight to New York and then a private executive jet will fly them to Carmel. I mean, this is just a totally different planet.
Her family own a large helicopter company. They are the ones you see on TV putting out forest fires. My cousin is one of the leading pilots for the company.
So we'd love to go, but just can't imagine turning up for that kind of wedding with a card and a set of bath towels or something.