Would you tell your best friend....

[mrs_overall]

....if her husband was having an affair?

[Nosha123]

yes.. and I have.... she left him....

[Bbbananas]

If I knew so for definite... yes.

[joggerjayne]

Yep.

No debates.

No arguments.

No "what ifs".

My best friend gets 100% from me. Total and utter loyalty. Complete openness. My close friends can trust me totally, totally, totally and I have NO secrets from them.

It's up to her to decide how she deals with the information ... not for me to decide for her.

[CAJ1]

I would tell her and leave it at that. I got involved way too deep when I told my friend about something similar before xmas, she ended up staying with him anyway and he now hates me! They split up recently though.

[PeasAndRice]

no, id use it as blackmail for abit.....and then tell them...

[joggerjayne]

Of course, if you're the person with whom he's having the affair, then you might want to tell her by phone, LOL.

[logic]

what's up with you lot, Can't you mind your own business,

[sara3]

absolutely, yes.

if you're sure. otherwise tell her that you're not sure, but...

[joggerjayne]

logic ... butt out ... mind your own business ...

=0)

[mrs_overall]

Someone has had a quiet word with the husband, along the lines of "end it or someone will tell your wife" but to no avail.
At a birthday party in a restaurant recenly, they even sneaked off for a quickie outside the back door while the wife was tucking into her meal.

[joggerjayne]

What a snake.

[Bbbananas]

That is disgusting - of both of them.

[puddicat]

I would tell her,the dirty pair of gits!!!

[logic]

It is my business, I like to know the type of person that I may at some time be conversing with,

and so we can assume that no one on this post has ever had an affair then,

come off it.

[mrs_overall]

There are 4 of us who are good friends and we are all appalled. We had a conflab about it over coffee this morning.
I guess we will have to draw lots to see who will tell her.

[logic]

I hope he washed his hands before he restarted his meal, :-)

[PeasAndRice]

create an anon hotmail account and sent it to her, and all four of you need to act surprised....

HOWS THAT FOR GENIUS!

[mrs_overall]

logic - hand on heart, I've never had an affair.

[Nosha123]

Oh Mrs Overall thats awful.. I thought the question posted was purely hypothetical... not based on fact!

She should definately be told.. they are making a fool of her and they are being sleazy and disgusting...

He does not deserve his wife.... and right now he thinks he is the cat that got the cream!