Well you and me in the same boat then Chris??
I dont expect anything but decent honest answers at this time and when the nasty ones come en masse (of course) I shall be snuggled up in bed -try telling them that though *sigh*
Ta Juggs,bensmum and andrea -this time I am going to fight my corner as very personal issues are being bandied about and some gullible person might just believe for example I deserve to be beaten up by my husband -that was just an example you understand (:
I have a lot of friends on here and I am not going to let a very small clique beat me into submission.