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i have. Look i am muslim myself and a boy. This may sound personal but how old are you as depending on your age i can give different advice. There is nothing wrong in being friends, if that is what you want, however no sexual relationships should happen.
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Sith, you've got the question the wrong way around. He's asking Muslim girls if they've ever dated a Christian boy. You're a Muslim boy who dated a non-Muslim girl.
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yes, but im giving my view just to help lol.
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Oh, I see. :o/
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I knew a guy that dated a dentist receptionist (Muslim) once
It was very cloak and dagger
She even had a week of work but pretended to her family she was going to work
In the end he ended the relationship though he really liked her
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There is one ABer who says he married a Muslim girl from a strict Muslim family, and converted to Islam. Perhaps he will come along and give you the benefit of his wisdom.
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I would say go talk to her, test the waters, no one on here can tell you about this particular young ladies own thoughts and desires or what value she places on her religion and culture. I don't think being a friend will be a problem, any advancement on that can be discussed.
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It's one thing to like the look of a boy, and quite another thing to go against your family's wishes and actually date one. Muslim families (generally) guard their girls very closely.
Do you know her parents?
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As Ratter says, it depends on the individual and her or his circumstances in each case. Nothing new in it, for similar questions have arisen for centuries: blacks marrying whites, Jews marrying gentiles, Catholics marrying Protestants, people from one tribe marrying people from another. The only lesson seems to be that, over time, mixed relationships become more numerous and more widely accepted, at least in this country
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You would have to convert to Islam. She can't leave Islam because then they would have to kill her.
It just isn't worth getting involved.
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Have to agree with Beso, you are better off not getting involved in the first place.
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Before the words 'better off' are mis-construed...I have to agree with Beso that you would more than likely have to convert to Islam...which would require alot of discipline.
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Could you not convert to Islam? Then you'd be more acceptable to her family.
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of course she might come from a fairly westernised family and only wears a scarf to fit in with her peer group... try just smiling and saying hello... and see what happens...
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Forget it bigduke,
it would cause to many problems and you are unlikely to be accepted into their family!
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Don't bother, she won't put out if you see what I mean.
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Beso, what a load of scaremongering nonsense.
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we will always have boundaries if no one dares to cross them...
We will always have walls if no one cares to climb them
We will always have hatred if no one tries to understand
If you try remember...respect... patience... and learning
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Like Rowan says, just smile and say hello. If she shows an interest, then try to form a friendship. If not, forget it.
I know of a very happy Muslim/Christian mixed marriage, in which neither partner has given up their faith, and both families get on really well. Sure, there are many Muslims that would consider such a thing taboo, but it doesn't apply to everyone.
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hc4361 - I was about to say just that. Too much Daily Mail reading, methinks.
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