I have arranged everything my self this year. Tonight I am taking all the family to a local hotel that specialises in Indian food. Thee are nine of us going. Daughter, SIL, five grandchildren and the two of us. Grandson will pick us up so we can have a drink.
Io something every year but they never know till the last minute whether I am cooking a meal, having a takeaway or going out somewhere. I like to keep them guessing!
I also buy everyone a happy birthday pressie from me!
OH thinks I am mad, but I like to be different.