If

[TWR]

It was possible what would you change about yourself / the things you have done in your life?

[Baldric]

Nothing at all, quite happy thanks.

[EcclesCake]

Nothing, I'd not be the person I am if I made any changes.

[penelope2]

IF ! what a lovely word when used as a conjunction.

[ummmm]

Nothing. Very happy with how things are.

[Elina]

Hi TWR, I'd have been more confident. It's taken me 50 odd years to reach a place where I feel I can just be me.

[TWR]

Good on you Elina xx

[gness]

Evening, Sweetie.....like Elina I would have developed the confidence I have now much earlier....though I'm making the most of it now....☺

There is only really one big thing in my life that I would change...not something I have done but something my mother did to me that I didn't find out until a couple of years ago.....
Had I know what she'd said and done before she developed Alzheimer's I would have confronted her and had nothing more to do with her.....and probably throttled her so it's maybe as well I didn't.....but the harm done is irreversible and unforgivable....x

[TWR]

Hi Gness, there's a few on here like that!! I've had throughout my life in one way or another, the world is full of nasty people, the trouble is they can not see that I found that out first hand, It's very hard to do Gness but as you say, try & put it behind you.xx

[cupotee2]

I'd change many things.
I would have sought a better education for a start, I'd have travelled instead of insisting, I am a home bird.
I'd like to say I'd not have a child but that would mean I wouldn't have my Grandson..

I wouldn't have the over weight body I have carried around..thats just for starters.

But, I have a good long marriage that I wouldn't change.

[murraymints]

i would not have married the person I did..i would have stayed in California when asked to by dashing Naval pilot officer ...sob sob

[Old_Geezer]

Change the neuron connections in my brain so I was more confident and socially adept. Oh and boost my memory and my IQ by a factor of ten.

[jim360]

There was a time towards the end of High School where I effectively spent a year or so learning nothing. That had unfortunate knock-on effects. Would have been better spent still pushing myself. Oh, well. Got there in the end, just about!

[lardhelmet]

Find a way that our family could have stayed living by the sea instead of having to move inland when the company my father worked for moved to Bedfordshire. This was in my teens and I had to

change from a school doing O levels to a school doing CSEs mid sylabbus. Dis-ars-ster

[Purple_Popple]

I would have studied for a degree, worked harder at my marriage at the time, wish I could have 'stood up' for myself more and not let others bully me.

[TWR]

P.P. Been there xxxx my answer to some F.U. If you do not like what you see, & the person you see tells the truth, if you can not take it, that's your problem.xx

[Psybbo]

A few regrets, but lucky to be where I am now. Like Gness, I would have liked to have been valued and encouraged at a young age, but heyho, it means we are more caring of our children.

[-Talbot-]

IF I could change something..... I would have spent more time painting rather than typing thousands of words on here.

[gness]

Can you expand, Talbot?......Frightened to ask in case you say houses.....x

[anneasquith]

no point in looking back,,,,,,,,,,,,,, what's done is done . :)

[boxtops]

Nothing, what iffing is a pointless exercise. I might have done some things differently, but what I did etc put me where I am today, and that's a good place.