Should I Go Out With A Guy Who Just Split From His Wife?

[NewGirl00]

hes not yet divorced i dont want a relationship with him just want some fun but dont know if its worth the hassle (of a possible angry wife) or if it would ruin his chances of getting back with his wife...

[woofgang]

one word. No.

[FredPuli43]

It's one step away from "My wife doesn't understand me ". He wants his fun too, given the chance. And you have to be wary of "on the rebound". If he breaks from his wife, the next woman who shows interest suddenly becomes "the one", with bad consequences for both parties.

[society]

Didn't you just post a shorter version of your OP under a different name?

[craft1948]

Go for it...............if you didn't want to you wouldn't be asking the question.

[jim360]

Oh it would definitely damage or ruin his chances of getting back with his wife. This would never just be fun, there would be so much drama too. Leave him be.

[DaisyNonna]

Newly separated men should be avoided like poison.

[askyourgran]

Let him get over it for a while. He probably wants a shoulder to cry on and someone to boost his ego telling him him that he is still a fanciable guy. That is if it's his missus that's left him. If he has left her, avoid him.

[birdie1971]

Sarcasm mode on.

I cannot for the life of me envisage a single scenario that would be emotionally detrimental to you in any way. Looks like a win-win to me. Go for it girl!

Sarcasm mode off.

[ummmm]

Lots of splits happen over a period of time so by the time the split is decided, you're already over it.

Do what you want as long as he's not still in the matrimonial home.

[anneasquith]

stay away, until he/wife have things organised.

[TransRiot]

Stay well clear. Seriously no good will come of it, chances are he will try to get back with his wife and blame you for " seducing " him.

You'll be seen as the other women and all the bad crap that comes with it, but you're an adult and you are allowed to have a fun with ever you want but that doesn't mean there maybe consequences for your actions =)

[ludwig]

You need to be aware that he's not even split from his wife. That's just some bu11shit he's telling you.

[jomifl]

You may well get some 'fun' but not necessarily what you are hoping for.
Perhaps his wife has chucked him out for being unfaithful. :-)

[chaptazbru]

If you only want some fun - go for it !

[boxtops]

No - he's not free to start a new relationship. Steer clear.

[chaptazbru]

She doesn't want a relationship - she just wants some fun ! As stated in her post ....

[boxtops]

Define "fun",,,,

[chaptazbru]

I don't know, it's her post !!!

[Bbbananas]

If he has really split and the split seems to be permanent, and you really do only want some fun, go for it.

If i u think he might be lying or you think you might become too involved, avoid it.

[joeluke]

Life's for living, go for it