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Chelsea Fc 'paid Me £50,000 Over Abuse'
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The plot thickens. It now looks as if Chelsea bribed a former player, not to say anything about his abuse !
Bloody disgraceful.
The plot thickens. It now looks as if Chelsea bribed a former player, not to say anything about his abuse !
Bloody disgraceful.
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When this type of discussion comes up, I am always astounded at the compete inability of some posters to stop looking at things from behind their keyboard, and take just a few seconds to think about it from the victim's perspective. This was a young man whose dream was to be a footballer, and he had already entered the dog-eat-dog environment where the favour of...
14:14 Fri 02nd Dec 2016
divebuddy - //Andy. Reading through the link provided it is difficult not to conclude that "compo" is the driving force behind Johnson's allegations. The fact that he is free to make whatever allegations he likes without having to worry about libel/slander has probably not escaped his notice. //
You might find it 'difficult' to believe that this man is motivated purely by money, and not by a desire to see the crimes against him exposed, and some acknowledgement of the damage done to him.
Personally, I have no difficulty at all.
You might find it 'difficult' to believe that this man is motivated purely by money, and not by a desire to see the crimes against him exposed, and some acknowledgement of the damage done to him.
Personally, I have no difficulty at all.
AOG - ///// So I don't know what I would have done, and if you are honest, and really honest about it - neither do you. ///
Please do not talk for me, I know perfectly well what I would have done as a 13 year old.
We are not talking about 5 year olds here, this was a 13 year old boy, who was not abducted by a gang, thrown into the back of a van and took to some remote place to be abused.
This was a youth who could have prevented the advances of a single perverted adult, fought him off, ran for the door and reported him to the nearest adult.
You must have been very easily led as a teenager Andy. //
On the basis of your post, and your graphic illustration that you grasp absolutely nothing of what the concept of abuse is about, I am delighted not to talk to you - and I suspect I will not be alone.
I can only join in with the posts that followed yours - your superior attitude is matched only by your wilful unwillingness to accept what abuse involves, the damage it does, and the sheer powerlessness of the victims involved.
Feel free not to talk to me - but maybe you can read the rest of the thread and educate yourself - and don't bother typing 'I don't need advise from the likes of you ...' - I can take it as read, and save you the trouble.
Please do not talk for me, I know perfectly well what I would have done as a 13 year old.
We are not talking about 5 year olds here, this was a 13 year old boy, who was not abducted by a gang, thrown into the back of a van and took to some remote place to be abused.
This was a youth who could have prevented the advances of a single perverted adult, fought him off, ran for the door and reported him to the nearest adult.
You must have been very easily led as a teenager Andy. //
On the basis of your post, and your graphic illustration that you grasp absolutely nothing of what the concept of abuse is about, I am delighted not to talk to you - and I suspect I will not be alone.
I can only join in with the posts that followed yours - your superior attitude is matched only by your wilful unwillingness to accept what abuse involves, the damage it does, and the sheer powerlessness of the victims involved.
Feel free not to talk to me - but maybe you can read the rest of the thread and educate yourself - and don't bother typing 'I don't need advise from the likes of you ...' - I can take it as read, and save you the trouble.
jackthehat
/// It sort of makes you wonder why some (men) are quite so determined to excuse or downplay the actions of these abusers, doesn't it? ///
I know from your avatar that you prefer women, but you really must stop being so misandry, abusers come from both sexes.
Also for your information no one on here is downplaying the actions of these abusers, just showing the reverse of the coin, of course to you lefties such a thing must never be done, unless that reverse shows up on your side.
Shall we all satisfy your position, and all put.
"We all deplore the actions of these disgusting abusers"
There that done, it would have ended the debate from post one, or we would have experienced a number of similar repeats of those words.
/// It sort of makes you wonder why some (men) are quite so determined to excuse or downplay the actions of these abusers, doesn't it? ///
I know from your avatar that you prefer women, but you really must stop being so misandry, abusers come from both sexes.
Also for your information no one on here is downplaying the actions of these abusers, just showing the reverse of the coin, of course to you lefties such a thing must never be done, unless that reverse shows up on your side.
Shall we all satisfy your position, and all put.
"We all deplore the actions of these disgusting abusers"
There that done, it would have ended the debate from post one, or we would have experienced a number of similar repeats of those words.
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yogi-bear
/// Disgraceful posts from you, AOG.
Post to Andy and JTH totally out of order and you should be ashamed of yourself. ///
Pity you don't show the same criticism towards JTH especially as she posted this inference.
/// It sort of makes you wonder why some (men) are quite so determined to excuse or downplay the actions of these abusers, doesn't it? ///
As for andy-hughes he gets all he deserves after some of the posts he presents.
/// Disgraceful posts from you, AOG.
Post to Andy and JTH totally out of order and you should be ashamed of yourself. ///
Pity you don't show the same criticism towards JTH especially as she posted this inference.
/// It sort of makes you wonder why some (men) are quite so determined to excuse or downplay the actions of these abusers, doesn't it? ///
As for andy-hughes he gets all he deserves after some of the posts he presents.
These very recent accusations, AOG, are levelled exclusively at me and I have no problem acknowledging that there are female sexual predators in existence and would never seek to minimise nor excuse their behaviour.
The fact that I 'bat for the other team' does not render me incapable of forming evidence-based opinions.
I'm not the lefty you imagine, or would like me to be, and do we really need to have 'the other side of the coin' constantly chucked into these threads?
Sometimes it is difficult to detect and can make the poster of such nonsense look more like a paedophile-apologist....
The fact that I 'bat for the other team' does not render me incapable of forming evidence-based opinions.
I'm not the lefty you imagine, or would like me to be, and do we really need to have 'the other side of the coin' constantly chucked into these threads?
Sometimes it is difficult to detect and can make the poster of such nonsense look more like a paedophile-apologist....
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