infedelity, Do you think a marriage or partnership can survive it...honestly?

[Bobbisox]

After reading abstracts from Denise Welch's new biography , I don't think a marriage would be strong enough to withstand this type of thing, she's very honest about her toyboy named Steve and what fabulous sex they had, and how Tim Healey has had various one night stands....
Could you carry on in a relationship that has had these things happen?
Bobbi

[thetruthhurts]

No

[Davethedog]

Short answer - No.

[ummmm]

No...but that is because I'm not the type to ever cheat and I'm happy with one man. I tend to go for men with the same mindset. If both parties are happy for it to happen, and some are, then that's down to them.

[Old_Geezer]

Do I think a marriage or partnership can survive it... Depends on the individuals. for some yes, for others no.

Could I carry on ? Not sure, would have to wait and see. Depends a lot on the circumstances. The attitude of the errant partner.

[Bobbisox]

so do you think this is a show-biz sham?
I couldn't either, the trust would be gone forever

[cazzz1975]

it depends on the type of people I suppose, for me it would end the marriage, I cant live with someone I no longer respect or trust.

[Old_Geezer]

PS at our age I think I'd just be flabbergasted she managed it :-D

[redman41]

I'm not saying that I'm losing my sex drive, but these days I'm envious of a stiff wind. He He

[Panic Button]

I'm surprised either of them can get it elsewhere - they are not exactly lookers are they?

[Bobbisox]

OG from what I have read she was going to end it and did not, until he found out for the second time

[cazzz1975]

the body language from both of them suggests its not much of a marriage in my opinion

[Bobbisox]

oh I dunno PB she's ok for her age, he's a tad little...lol

[Panic Button]

Oh Cazz! What a horrible avatar!

(I'm a Baggie)

[Bobbisox]

it looks to be quite an open one cazz, whatever an open marriage is..lol
yet she reckons it is not

[Panic Button]

How old is she then, Bobbi? 60?

[Bobbisox]

she's certainly a bit past 50 anyway..lol

[Bobbisox]

she's 51...only..lol

[cazzz1975]

just getting you used to it before the season starts pb ;)

bobbi, I saw on loose women when they "surprised" denise with her husband dressed only in undies, they brought out 2 hunky young blokes on the pretence of advertising xmas socks and pants ect, she was loving it, drooling over the blokes then tim came out and the initial look was complete anger and horror, she could barely look at him. of course she then composed herself and fake smiled her way through it.

it spoke volumes in my opinion.

[Bobbisox]

I saw that too cazz, I have met him and he is exactly the same as he is when you see him

[lardhelmet]

He always strikes me as a grumpy old get Bobbi and she seems to fancy herself waaay too much. Sound about right?