If you had sex with an ex and they didn't use a condom

[angel21]

Would you be angry at the fact they could give you an sti and don't seem to care? Or would you not be bothered

[danchip]

why would you be angry you obviously didn't make them use a condom so its your fault as much as theirs

[Schutzengel]

I hope you didn't.

[redcrx]

id be furious with myself if Id let them!

[craft1948]

I bet she has.....

[rinkins]

Angel you didn't did you?

[Sasha-2008]

Isn't you ex and ex for a reason??

[angel21]

Oh I'm back. Well of course I have. Not since we broke up no but when we were together he never used one. I know its my fault for letting him get away with it but would you be angry that he didn't respect you enough to use one?

[Bbbananas]

Exactly - it does take two to tango.

[Bbbananas]

Oh Angel - you haven't have you?

[angel21]

ffs can't post !!

Umm well in a way he's putting himself at risk too as he doesn't know where I've been since we were apart last time but then he can trust me more than I can trust him and I think he probs knows that I wouldn't have been with anyone else so really all hes doing is putting me at risk esp when he says he hasn't slept with anyone when we were apart and then he says we did and tries to make out when he had thrush that I am the one out of the two of us that might have given him something.

I definitely made the right decision dumping him as I keep thinking of more reasons

[China Doll]

I'd be directing the anger at the person I see in the mirror every morning, it's your own fault, you should have insisted he did or else not have sex. If you didn't mind at the time then it's up to you to deal with the reprucussions and take it as a lesson learnt.

[rinkins]

I thought you meant you had slept with him since you recently broke up!

[missnemesis]

A) Why would you have sex with an EX? Surely the clue is in the word EX!

B) Why the HELL would you have sex with him/her/anybody you weren't in a full time relationship with and NOT use a condom?

C) If they're sleeping with you without a condom the chances are they are sleeping with others without using one and therefore are possibly already going to have some sort of STI. Do you really want to share that with them?

D) You're giving it away without expecting them to use a condom. If YOU don't respect yourself enough to use one and they don't respect you or themselves enough to use one then do you think they are going to give a sh!t whether you end up with a dose of the clap?

E) If it's only an STI you're lucky, it could be HIV! Not to mention an unwanted pregnancy.

F) "Or would you not be bothered" I don't know anyone who would not be bothered by having an STI.

Whoever these people are deserve all they get.

[4getmenot]

yep agree with china you cant put blame on him it is your own fault, you live in your own body, you have your own mind. Thats like swimming in a pool of sharks then blaming them when they bite you

[missnemesis]

Angel21 it's people like you and your ex that keep Jeremy Kyle on the TV.

[angel21]

hmmm I do seem to have a problem with bringing disrespect and abuse on myself.

Need to sort that one out.

I know I should have respected myself enough in the first place to have said use a condom or no sex but I obviously didn't have enough self respect to do that and you're quite right if you don't respect yourself no one else is going to.

Rinkind - no I've been reasonably good!

Been trying to post for ages but have been banned. Heard the balloon flight was good!

[angel21]

Oh don't missnemesis - Just recently I have been thinking that myself. But seriously I am a nice girl. If you met me in real life you would never believe I would be like this and get myself into these problems etc. I have always been the quiet one, I am intelligent, kind, caring, can be witty occasionally

[4getmenot]

so has he given you something? I guess if he has you now know he was seeing others

[angel21]

Don't know this time yet 4get. He never has in the past. Which again makes me wonder has he slept around hasn't he. But I am gonna get checked.

[No,Knowledge]

she has already said he has given her something 4get , just how many inches we don't know !