Do I carry on seeing him?

[Defy_Gravity]

I split up from my ex boyfriend in February last year after he cheated on me and I moved flat and I'm now renting a flat in a lovely area. My next door neighbour moved in in May and he came round to introduce himself one day and we got talking and he asked me out on a date. We've seen each other a lot since then and I really feel like I am falling for him. He moved to the building after splitting from his ex girlfriend and is a fair bit older than me, which I like, I like that I can have a conversation with him and he treats me like a lady. Everything is going well but I'm so aware of getting hurt again, do I let things carry on with him or should I end it?

[ummmm]

Carry on if he's making you happy. Why deny yourself happiness 'just in case'?

[milly143]

Why would you end based on something that hasn't happened?

Just have some fun with him.

[Old_Geezer]

Play the what if scenarios.

What if you end it. So does that mean you ar not ready yet, or are you going to be wary of getting hurt again for the rest of your life, and never take a risk again ?

I'd not suggest rushing into the arms of anyone who takes an interest but you can't live a decent life afraid of what might be and avoiding experiences either.

[Brinjal]

Why end it if things are going well. Take it easy dont rush things but give the man a chance. Enjoy have some fun.

[bondgirl007]

if i was you id let things carry on but at your pace, dont let things get to heavy to quick, cos if you end it you may up end regretting it, just take it slowly :)

[Sqad]

Your boy friend cheated on you........that is unusual, most men wouldn't do that..............so I gather.

Yes.....keep on seeing him.