kissing another person...

[satyr555]

My sister has been with her boyfriend for 2 years, they apparentley are in love, shes 29 and he's 36

I get on with him like a house on fire, its like having a brother, a long story short my sister this past year has got into acting as a sideline career aswell as being a HR assistant.

Theres a role coming up where she has to kiss a guy on the mouth and her boyfriend isnt happy infact he confided in me today saying it would really hurt him and he doesnt know if he can take it, he is very intelligent and knows its acting but the act of another mans lips on his girlfriend is upseting him...

what should I tell him...?

[Mick-Talbot]

Stop being a Gonk?

[DTCwordfan]

that she's using clingfilm over her mouth

[Hopkirk]

I can understand where he is coming from.

Perhaps he should be telling your sister, rather than you.

[madmaggot]

Nothing. It's for them to talk it through and to come to an agreement as a couple as to whether she does it or not.

[satyr555]

they have spoken shes determined to do without thinking of how he would feel she says "i am an actress now accept it" and that she loves him blah blah, i think its wrong but thats my take on it.

is he wrong to feel this way ? i mean I care for him he's very sincere and would never kiss someone 'if work demanded it'

i am not interferring its just we are family

[TWR]

He would have problems if she went into porn as a sideline, he wants to encourage her.

[emmie]

get a grip, it's a job, he should be thankful

[jackthehat]

There are many parts in many plays that require a degree of 'intimacy' between the actors.

The boyfriend is either going to have to put up with it, or move on.

[Mick-Talbot]

satyr555.... you are the family Jewel, yeah

[Bazile]

Is this a short kiss on the lips or an intense lingering job?

[DTCwordfan]

if a normal kiss, what's the fuss?

If a blow job, what's the fuss? After all, Bill Clinton said it wasn't sex.

[humbersloop]

dt, that's rude

[satyr555]

no I am not the family jewel at all, stop being patronizing little person.

And it's a long full kiss on the lips.

[sandyRoe]

She could eat some raw garlic before the curtain goes up. That might stop a lingering kiss.

[satyr555]

some really childish answers here to a genuine question. I get a sneaky feeling some people are spending their whole life on AB.

[DTCwordfan]

I know, sloopy, that's what Hilary said to Bill...................

[Canary42]

If he really can't take it then he better end the relationship.

[sandyRoe]

The interesting part of my life is now spent on AB. gawd help me

[humbersloop]

couldn't they use a body double for that scene op?

[DTCwordfan]

For someone with just a week on AB and placing the thread on Chatterbank, that's somewhat rich, satyr. If you wanted something more serious, you should have placed on relationships.

A bit of humour and teasing is no bad thing - and actually says a lot about the person joining........

Welcome by the way.