Sleep with someone on a first date?
Would you sleep with someoneon a first date? and do you think men and women are judged differentlly on this matter? Also, anyone out there in a long-term relationship with someone who you slept with on a first date?
maplestar Thurs 06/11/08 14:58
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No way. Never have and never will. Yes they are judged completely differently.
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Yes done it lots of times, sometimes the ladies have been more willing than me.
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I have done lots of times and not even really dates but I was young and a minx back then. I think woman can get much more of a bad rep for it. But then I never went round shouting my mouth off about any conquests. I think as you become older you realise to take it slow and get to know someone alot more first
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no, definately not. these days people are judged quite similarly on it (neither is complementary)
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as long as you're safe whats the harm in a bit of pleasure :-)
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No, never.
I like to know someone quite well before "it" happens.
But if the relationship gets that far, the guy will be very, very glad he waited.
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Why Jayne, you don't snore?
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Sleep with someone???...... or have sex??
Big difference if you ask me.
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Only once. And I did already know the guy. And it wasn't a one night stand as we went on to have a 6 month relationship and are still friends.
It was Christmas Eve, were had both just come out of a long term relationship, and yes - we were drunk. (Though not toooo drunk; obviously!)
With all my other relationships I have made them wait. Girls do get a reputation as 'easy' or slappers, whereas boys get a pat on the back & a notch on their bedpost.
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Dani - Looks like we were thinking the same.
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No, I've never slept with a woman on a first date. Sex has been offered, but I'd rather wait.
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Sgt. Rock ... it's so long since I was in a relationship, I don't know if I snore or not ...
... (except when I'm p*ssed, cos everybody snores, and when my friends crash over after we've been out on the town my flat probably sounds like a pig farm).
I'll have to go to sleep with a dictaphone beside the bed one night.
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Ahem....each of my 3 long-term relationships started with sex! (2.5 years/2.5 years/22 months).
Don't judge me (you can if you want, I don't care).
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jkkerr - Do you think if you had not slept with them straight away, you could get past the two and a half year mark?
Maybe you could have had one, seven year + relationship by now...
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Sgt.Rock....that's the bit I don't get either.
Why do people say 'Sleep'....when there is no sleep involved???
What about if you are outside? or in a car? Do you 'sleep' standing up??
The mind boggles!!
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Dani - It's a euphemism for s**g.
Got the red wine and chocs? Settee will be OK for me.
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Youare not allowed to go to sleep mind....
not when you are with me anyway *wink*
:-)
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Sorry, not fussed on watching DVDs all night? :-0
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That's ok babes......we could have a go at some new gymnastic moves I have just learnt.
:-)
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Just give me a chance ;o)
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