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My husband and I met in high school almost 14 years ago. We have beed married for 6 1/2 years and we have 3 beautiful children together. I found out that my husband cheated on me last May and i have not been coping well with the situation. He didn't tell this women he was married and had a relationship on the side for almost a year. Will a man cheat or continue to cheat if he is in love? I don't think its possible. Now I think I'm falling out of love with him because of what he did.

ftj001 Fri 09/05/08 15:57

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andrea81
Fri 16/05/08
13:04

Narbadingi
Well put, I agree whole hearted with this! Good luck chick x x x

ftj001
Fri 16/05/08
19:13

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I hope he wasn't just obsessed with me that would be horriable. I asked myself, Can someone be obsessed over somebody that long? and sadly I guess the answer is yes. I hope I didn't misunderstand you. Are u saying that maybe he was obsessed with me all that time and realized that I wasn't the one. Clarify Please!

andrea81
Mon 19/05/08
09:47

ftj001

I think what Narbadingi was saying (or at least what I took it as) was that his affair is an obssesion and not real and what he has with you is more real, that is why he was able to kick the habit for YOU!

I know it must be hard, but just think about how many partners have affairs that their other halfs never find out about! I know it has happened to members who are close to me and it fizzled out, leaving their marriage in-tact and things as right as rain now!

I'm not saying it's right, but it happens more often than you think!

I think men and women do silly things sometimes, but I'm sure it's forgivable and you will feel differently in time! If he's willing to prove himself then let him!

Take care x

linds1528
Mon 04/08/08
19:12

i could never stay with a man that did that to me.

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