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me and my gf havin been goin out now for 3 months and now she saying she wants a break i asked has she stopped loving me or sumthign and she sed no she's meant evry word she sed to me and she sed she dunno lately things have felt the same and thinks she just needs soem time to sort out ehr feelings and thoughts cause she feels like her heads proper messed up at the moment and ive sed i understand i love u with all my heart i do and u have been the best thing thts happened to me in a long time and if u need space and tht 2 sort urself out thts ok id rather us b 2gether in some way than not at all and she's sed she feesl horrible she didnt say to me in person she sed it to me on msn and she's sed everythings catching up with her now and ..like wen we first met up she expected it to just be a fling sorta thing and it turned into so much more way too quickly which she think is why she feel like she needs some time out...to think bout what she want and what will be best ive asked her how long wud she need and she sed she doesn't kno howevr long it takes and she sed if i didnt wanan hang around adn w8 for her she wud understand but i sed to her i wudnt w8 as long as she needs cause i love her deeply she means to world to me and i love her and she sed she loves me and another thing i sed to her im sorry i rushed thigns at beginnin and she sed no dnt be sorry uve been the best bf ive evr had treated me well, been sweet and been there for me...yu didnt do nothing wrong and ive asked her if she just letting me down gently but she sed no she's not doin this intentially to break up with me she just needs time to figure thigns out and i ve asked her if we r still goin out adn she sed in her eyes we r just takin a break from each other cause we need space i sed well i wants us to still being goin out caus ei love u and i hope u love me to so i wud hope we r still goin out we just not seein each other for a lil while and she sed back u kno i love u

rocky_dude23 Thurs 08/05/08 14:20

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redcrx
Thurs 08/05/08
14:24

take a deep breath and start again.

try punctuation too, it makes easier to read.

4getmenot
Thurs 08/05/08
14:25

yer bit long winded, but any break to me just means its dead in the water

squarebear
Thurs 08/05/08
14:26

Sorry rocky but that lot is impossible to read. Break it into sentences and spell it correctly.

It sounds like she maybe does genuinely want a break. Let her have a bit of space and see how she feels in say a month.

rocky_dude23
Thurs 08/05/08
14:36

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my gf wants a break because she says she needs some time to figure out what she wants what she thinks is best and to sort out her feelings and that because her mind has been kinda weird lately

and she reckons time apart will do us good. she says she still loves me and has meant evrything she has sed to me and that i should know that because i asked her had she stopped loving me.

she has also sed that when we first met up she thought it was just goin to be a fling but it turned into much more and she says its all catchin up with her.

ive asked her how logn would she need and she has said she doesn't know but if i don't want to wait around for her she understands. ive told her i will wait for as long as she needs because i love her deeply and would rather us be together than not at all.

so basically she wants some time and space to figure thigns out and she still loves me i dunno if still wants to go out with me but i wud believe she does cause she has said she isn't doing this to intentially break up with me.

tinkerbell99
Thurs 08/05/08
14:37

sorry to be blunt but shes either cheating on you or wants to break up but doesnt know how to do ti and im speaking from experience

squarebear
Thurs 08/05/08
14:38

To be honest mate, if she said she would understand if you went off with someone else then it sounds like she's had enough.

Give her a month and see what happens but don't push it. If she still feels the same then it's time to move on, which will seem impossible right now but time heals.

4getmenot
Thurs 08/05/08
14:39

I;m afraid if you want to be with someone why would you need a break.

Bathsheba
Thurs 08/05/08
14:44

Sorry dude, but you've been dumped.

rocky_dude23
Thurs 08/05/08
14:51

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thxs for bein honest guys and havin so much faith but im thinking positively and i believe we will still stay 2gether because she has said she loves and meant evrything she said to me and she's not doing this to intentially break up with me and another thign she sed was when she evr gets sumthing gd she always ruins it somehow and so to tht i believe she still wants to go out with me she just needs time to figure out what she wants because i kno a m8 who kinda went though same thing and him and his gf havin been goin out for years now so it may just be a (**** can't remember word i think its spelt) faze

Bathsheba
Thurs 08/05/08
14:52

Ah bless. Yeah, close enough x

redcrx
Thurs 08/05/08
14:54

sorry but if shes really wanting to go out with you and loves you then what does she need a break for???

Can i ask how old you both are?

Bathsheba
Thurs 08/05/08
14:55

Hiya Leg- been talking bout you to a mutual friend who only had good things to say about you. So would now be a good time for me to make my apology to you in public? x

DarkMajes71c
Thurs 08/05/08
14:55

tottaly ignore her dont give her any attention at all... if she misses you then she will contact you, dont take her back straight away if she does make her earn it from putting you through this sh1t and by no means expect it. From what you have written and the way you have written it, it sounds like you got way to intense way to quickly, which pushes her away from you.
I dont know the girl so i cant say if she wants to break up with you or is cheating and to be frank neither is certain although as tinkerbell99 said it is usualy the case that it is one of these two things.
if you want to gain a better understanding of how relationships work try reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss its about a pick up artist but in his writting you gain an understanding of what women want and need in order to want to stay with you.

best of luck mate hope it turns out for the best.

DM

4getmenot
Thurs 08/05/08
14:57

So she wants to sort her feelings out but can still say she loves you???

tinkerbell99
Thurs 08/05/08
15:21

im sorry but i feel shes taking you for a mug it is true that how can she say she loves you if she wants to sort out her feelings so she doesnt really love you does she? you should forget about her and move on meet someone who isnt going to mess you around like that x

bms
Fri 09/05/08
13:15

As been said by others, you are dumped
You must carryon with life and forget about her.
Ask her to take a forever, and get someone to enjoy life with.
And don't tell me that you beilive everything the woman tells you especially in this case. Sorry Bra

bms
Fri 09/05/08
13:15

Ask her to take a break forever.

richierich07
Sun 01/06/08
13:36

wow that took some reading, can i come up for air now lol

reading it pal sounds like your still young , not even 20 yet or maybe just over
your still young life hasnt even started for u
in other words m8 , she`s saying its over

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