Am now married with nearly three children. All I can say is, you may have to kiss a few frogs along the way and also don't believe in love at first sight, especially when alcohol is involved! When I first met my husband, he was drunk as a skunk, giggling like a big girl and I didn't look twice at him, Saw him again six months later by chance, and thought - he's alright...and here we are! Good luck, but don't give up and you should know when its right...and don't forget to have some fun along the road!!!