I’ve known a friend for over 15 years ---well he’s more then a friend. But we don,t live together.
Due to some technical problems within life styles.
He claims he loves me but I have never loved him but got used to having someone around when needed.
He’s obsessive and very insecure. He’s moody and can turn on you at the slightest of thing.
Last two years I’ve completely gone off him and find it very difficult even to sleep with him!!!! What should I do.
for people to be friends, not even just man and woman, there needs to be mutual respect, and for there to be mutual respect, there first has to be self respect. Without wanting to sound too harsh, I think you both need to work on the latter!
got to agree with rojash, maybe part of his temper is fueled by the frustration of not being able to have you properly.
I think you're being unfair to him. It sounds like finding love is not something you're that bothered about but he is.
pa---uls
you could be right i I was,nt all that bothered about finding love until recently when I have to force my self to sleep with him. It just makes me sick.
Why is that????
why cant I make it work????
Think you already know the answer. Don't live together; don't want to sleep with him; he swears at you; you have never loved him. Maybe some hints in these statements?? Get out girl.
Yes what a shame that people you known for so long ----suddenly make you sick and I mean physically sick. May be its time to move on.. Trouble is he’s really ugly I know I shouldn’t say this but it’s true. I am no oil painting but am not ugly either.
I just hate the smell the talk the walk every thing. And sex is so bang bang thank you so borring and so …………. Makes me sick
Hmmmm that is so true – I thought about it, in the past I have had to force my self and I never got over that. I think that had bad effect on me, and that why I just feel sick.
Well I had no where and no one to turn to he was there, he was always very rude and nasty to me and still is but I don,t need him so much now I have my own flat and my job and I have money.3
Why should be sick over him,, and specially when he swears at me if I don’t want to have sex.
To be honest postage, I think this is a wind up but just the thought of you performing that act of having sex with someone so ugly to you, such an offensive smell to you, it sounds almost like animals, only animals dont treat each other that way.
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