need a little advice

[babylilo]

I was seeing this guy about a month ago... we had a bit of a pregnancy scare and he said he wanted to cool it off for a bit until we were sure i wasn't..... he had a bad experience last year which i fully understood... anyways everything was cleared up and i wasn't pregnant which i told him. i then asked if we were still cooling it off or what?. to this he asked me what i thought and i said well i don't know thats why i asked. He said we were really good friends and he didn't want to flump that up cause he hurts everyone. i said that i ddn't think he would hurt me and that i feel a bit confused cause he tells his best pal that he really likes me but says something different to me. he says that we should take it slow get to know eachother and see where it goes. i don't know what to do? he flirts all the time and stands really close when he is talking to which i have started to take a step back and i generally end up being really blunt. he says i am being mean but he can't expect to turn round and say we are really good friends and expect it to go back to the way it was when we were more than friends. I really don't get it... does he want more?

[Sqad]

pinki.....me too!

[Bbbananas]

I would for good sex.....
I wouldn't for rubbish sex....

Big difference ;-)

[Sqad]

salla........any sex is better than no sex.

[tamborine]

he wants sex without strings......for FREE :)

[arwyn]

sqad ha ha I ment young girls

[Sqad]

arwyn....so did I...;-)

[mccfluff]

"salla........any sex is better than no sex."

disagree i'd rather no sex than bad sex

[Sqad]

tambo.....NOOOOOOO!.....the villain........the dastard...............my hand is shaking with rage.

[starone]

Sqad - you had better think that remark through a bit, not any sex, surely, what about rape - that is sex but extremely unpleasant.

[Sqad]

Mccluff.....couldnt care less about you.....I was talking about ME.

[mccfluff]

and i was talking about me

[Sqad]

Starbuck.......with due respects......rape is and has never been a part of this thread.

Rough sex...YES.......Rape.....NO.

[Bbbananas]

I'd rather have no sex, than bad sex....

I suppose, for men, any sex they can get is good sex. I'd rather have a good book than a bad ....

[Mamyalynne]

Babylilo, if you are happy with a casual relationship that includes sex, then make sure you are fully protected with good contraception and stick with this guy.

However if you are after a relationship that may lead to commitment and a future together, ditch him and keep your options open.

[Bbbananas]

Don't be silly pinki - I love a good cook.

[tamborine]

Disgusting sqad, I gave my 'window cleaner' £20....nowts free for me :(