boys

[shirag]

I really like this boy. but he is with someone. what do I do?

[secretspirit]

Wait for him to finish with them? Find someone else? Trying to take him from somebody else is just not nice and would you want the kind of person who might do that to you in future?

[DOB]

If he's the sort of guy who will leave his girlfriend to be with you, then he's the sort of guy who will leave you to be with someone else. If his current girlfriend is the one for him, you can't do anything about it. And if she's not, then wait for it to finish and then take your chance. But don't be his rebound girl!

[christina801]

You should just leave him alone and find someone else.

[worder]

so, you like some who has someone, well, welcome to the club! it will happen many times in your life. either that or the person has noone, and could not care for you. it's okay, you will find someone who will like you back, you know what you need to do? grab him with both hands, and never ever jamais nunca jamas, let him go. i made the mistake of being mean to someone who was my soulmate, and he's with someone else for the last two years. i'm kinda over the awful pain, but the problem is, even though i have met and fallen in love afterwards, i don't seem to have the connection i had with this one guy who is like the love of my life. you sound like a very young person cause you mention a boy, i'm telling you all this cause i've got three daughters, and i give them them same advice.

[FTVS]

Personally I wouldn't go near a guy who was with someone else...but this is beacuse I am 35 and have learnt by experience. Sounds like you haven't made that mistake yet! The most unlikely outcome is that you and he will get together and live happily ever after. Top two most likley are either 1) smack in the mouth from current girlfriend 2) you nab him from her and he then leaves you for the next but of fluff that bats her eyelashes at him. Possible 3) he leaves her for you, is wracked by remorse and goes back to her. Best off to get over it and find someone else!

[Casey]

I would pluck up the courage and tell him how you feel, otherwise you will never know what could have happened! If he tells you he is happy with who he is with then at least you will know

[sylviak]

if he left this girl for you then would you really be able to trust him if another cutie came to him and proposed some extra curricular activity!!its all about morals morals morals

[mental probs]

I say tell him