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NOT a sympathy thread !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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As some will be aware my children lost their children tragically (in a an accident) just 6 months ago. Its been tough - very tough as we have an impending trial. Today- his dad -my childrens grandad was found dead -I visited him as I was concerned as he seemed to have given up when Dave was killed and urged him to please start eating and think of the rest of his family (his wife died at 47) -he assured me he would try -remember I am now on the perimeter of the family. He came to see my mum and dad 2 weeks ago and spoke at length about me and Dave (my first husband and father of my children and sorely missed) and at that point I thought -he has given up -looks like he did. It wasnt suicide -he simply died of a broken heart -how sad is that and selfishly another burden for my 2 to bear-I am weeping as I type this. I just wish that the perpetrator of this event would have just pled guilty and taken the smack on the wrist and at most a years ban -but no -she had to take it to trial. Am I such a bad person for hating this woman with a vengenace -I would have held ny hands up and said 'Guilty as charged' but no she decided to not only try to keep her licence for a lesser limit but the biatch has now effectively cut 2 lives short -but given us all a life sentence.The trial starts at the end of April. (She doesnt have a leg to stand on -well Dave would have had no legs to stand on had he lived -or a head so its all incidental-grr) Would you blame me for being bitter and also what next ??????????????? .Can someone tell me -I have no emotion left for my children-its been all used up-how can I tell them its gonna be OK?
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Oh god,dris...i am crying for you here......and I REALLY don't know what to say to you. I know that you have been a rock these past few months, and I know that your children are old enough to stand strong on their own....maybe you will need to gather some strength FROM them now. it is not a one-way system in close families....they can give back to you-their mum-some of thestrength that has come from YOU over the years.....try to lean on them a bit ,hun. it is not a bad thing,and you will all feel better for it. xx
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Everyone has already passed on their sympathies regarding this, she's not the first and won't be the last to go through a traumatic time. The need for her to talk about it on here is perfectly understandable, but when she writes such a long question, which begs the reader to contemplate how best to give and answer, she displays an arrogance and a complete lack of manners by calling people that consider her a friend a bunch of uncalled for names......all because they didn't answer within 15 minutes of her posting....and they're apologising??? The mind boggles.
Everyone has already passed on their sympathies regarding this, she's not the first and won't be the last to go through a traumatic time. The need for her to talk about it on here is perfectly understandable, but when she writes such a long question, which begs the reader to contemplate how best to give and answer, she displays an arrogance and a complete lack of manners by calling people that consider her a friend a bunch of uncalled for names......all because they didn't answer within 15 minutes of her posting....and they're apologising??? The mind boggles.
