tormenting myself

[lightoftruth]

Whenever im in a relationship, or even about to get into a relationship i get tormented by visions of rejection.

for example in my last relationship i foresaw my gf ending it in a dream and for 2 months i had a pretty ****** time as i was always thinking she was going to break up with me.

Next example is i asked a girl out this friday and whilst i knew from a friend that she was going to say yes i was still constantly seeing her turning me down for the week preceeding the asking.

Now im sort of going out ( i say sort of because she's yet to tell me when she can come on a date) and im constantly fearful that for some reason she will change her mind...every text i get i have to steel myself before opening

Do i need help? because im starting to think that i do

[jno]

maybe... plenty of people go through life rather pessimistically, or suffer from depression to one degree or another. The question is whether it's interfering with your ability to lead a normal life. Have your worries actually led to the breakup of your relationships? Or do you manage to keep them under control? If you feel they're taking over your life then yes, see your doctor.