The biggest argument of all

chesnuts | 01:37 Mon 15th Oct 2007 | Body & Soul

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2nite i have had the argument from hell with my husband u can not believe, his mam lives with us as does his 17 year old son and my 2 dogs, i feel utterly shattered and worn out, i am scared 4 my dogs and am hospital 2moro to have 2 biopsies on my face for a mark that cud b skin cancer i feel so unhappy i dont know wot to do or where to turn dusnt life suck. and to those of you who hate text talk i am sorry but tonight i am not bothered i just want some friendly answers not putting me down because i have said "cos" or txt talke d but becos y the heck shud us women who take on our fellas family have to be the bad un and yep i knew wot i was getting myself in for but i thought if i at least stuck up 4 his mam wen he calls her a reatd (She has had a stroke) and his son becos he loves him, wot am i doing i have my own problems anyone who remembers me knows i already have two broken legs apparently they r talking the casts off in 2 weeks time but i am getting grief off work too, hell of a life eh?
Please go easy on me 2nite i have *** on here looking for friendship and a nice word not horribleness, thanks

Sheesh...what a night with Whiffey

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society

he is not on the ab has never be and wont be he is in bed now asking me to go to bed with him y r u guys trying to hurt me if you have nothing nice to say dont say it

i posted this on body and soul and animals.

i sed at thr beginning i dont want sarcy comments coments like bigmamma wa swot i was looking for so unless my hubby is two faced and canjump outa bed and type ona na invisible pc thid thread is mine yet agen an innocent thread turns out to be a chat with mates

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lgendo and r mate i came on here looking for advice u spoil it thanks

my hubbie cant be onling he has been in bed for hours y dont u find a post to play with. this is serious

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legend why put me own with yr mate i do not understand and society

|put this postonhere body and soula nd on animals and nature. I apolofise if the truth hurts of i u dont believe me i can show u my heart and no more if u have nothing good to say please i beg u say nothing at all, or justify a man threatening a woman and her dogs and her mother in alw and her stepson if u can do that ok i will listen and do everything in my power to prove u wron i can use photobucket 4 my legs get my motherin law to speak 4 hersef, but most of all i came on here tonight sad and desperate not looking for nastiness and u ok u want me to prove my stoey then ask and i will scan all hospital documents and prove everything i am shocked i place an abb on body and soul 4 obvious reasons and animals be os i am afraid for my dogs, please prove me wrong make me out to be a liar and wen i prove u wrong will u ever say sorry 4 taking away the only chance of friendship that i have

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i am a female, i posted into animals and body an soul to get a better response, i guess was wrong and just looking for help, i apologise to the two of u that put me down badly and i mean badly i hope you are proud. i really do i wont come on here anymore any faith i had her was killed byLEGEND007 AND COCIETY

I made the mistake of puttin the same question on the two posts, I really really needed a friend needed help, becuase of the both of you try and look back my posts i hav backed p everything i have said i hope u r both happy,no i waont ring samaritans thats y i loved this site, i thought it wa great. u have made a fool of me. for your sakes i hope my hubbie continues to be the way he is and that thru u i hav cancer and that those dogs will only be in trouble becos of u, my legs will heal..i will miss boo, dot chinadoll etc and all becos of you one day u may have troubles too. i hop u get the same care and attention

Thanx

chesnuts

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DID I REALLY DO WRONG BY POSTING THIS ON BODY AND SOUL AND THE ANIMAL ONE, I ONLY wanted 2 types of response it has been sucha hard night i didnt mean to cause concern only wanted more answers i am so confused. my wuestion realted to body and sou and becos of the dogs that 2

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I'm new here, i did not realize u did not post the same question on 2 topics, i am sorry. Legend007 and Society I apologise I knew no better i just felt sad andreally down i apologse ok. Iwont be coming back on here but it makes me sad because foe the first time people thought of me I am really sorry i do not know any rules or regs I am no gonna post the same on the other site i dont expect to hear from you but at least i am doing wot i do best apologising ok

hau kola

Chesnuts,you don`t need to apologise to anybody,Don`t give answerbank up,i nearly did after getting awful abuse after posting something quite personal.I think if yours had been a day time post you would have had a better response.I know thats easy to say,you posted when it was safe to do so and felt most alone.I swore never to come on here again,but after time things settled.Hope you get on ok today,i will be thinking of you.x

dawny0311

Chesnuts

What a rough time you are having at the moment Chesnuts!

Could you not try and deal with one problem at a time?

By the time you read this you will have been to hospital and I sincerely hope that all is well.

One broken leg will get anyone down but two? Give yourself a break and accept that their is little you can do until your legs have healed. I don't know how long you have been off work (sorry no time to go looking back on the site to find out). However, two broken legs is a legitimate reason for being off work. Take the rotten so and so's to a tribunal if you lose your job. You have rights!

If your husband is not being supportive (I don't know how much you are trying (or have) to do with two broken legs) but if your husband can't (or won't) help you at a time like this it says a lot! Is he cooking the meals - if not - just feed yourself - cold foods if necessary but you need to keep your strength up! Your husband will soon sort himself out when he's hungry. He should be caring for his mother at a time like this - NOT YOU!
The fact that he is in bed snoring is a dead give away as to how 'supportive' he is!

You MUST be able to get some help from somewhere.
You are classed as an invalid yourself at the moment if your husband can't or won't help - find someone who can.

If you go on like this you will end up in hospital anyway (our bodies can only take so much) so your husband will have to cope!

Concentrate on getting yourself better - the rest will follow - honest!

All the best Chesnuts.

legend760

i dunno what chestnutws was on about .
i only said i didnt understand what she was saying.
i didnt understand why he was accusing her.
and i didnt know why she was having a go at me.
sadly its all been removed and chestnut just continued to post complaints.
very strange and surreal if you ask me.

legend760

and my first reply was i was sorry to hear it .

and i hoped she sorted things out .
then the thread just went haywire.

society

Well Legend, I to am curious to know what wrong I said to chesnut. All I did was praise her for coping with her situation, being a strong person and wish her well. If that was difficult to understand in my response to her problem then she does have more problems than she thinks she has.

jane1098

hey chesnuts. hope all goes well at the hospital. looks like life is not treating you too well. lets hope the results are negative and once the plasters are off you could retreat somewhere hot.
let us know when you get the results.

tiggerblue10

Please come back chesnut. I think we all want to know how the biopsies went and are concerned about you.

You are in a horrible place right now but once you get your results and have the casts removed you will be in a better position to sort yourself out.

x

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