my hubby prefers his pc game

[kitten_uk2]

Hi, yes my usual gripe on here, hubby and his pc game (wow), hes not too bad on it now actually, it just stresses me that when i want his attention he cant give it me, earlier he was sat at the pc fighting in his game and was in conversation with me too, so i went over to kiss him (give him a taster for later when its 'our time') and he wouldnt engage in a full snog just a peck because he was fighting sum oger on his game. this isnt acceptable to me. am i wrong?

[crossroads]

I'll get you a program that'll lock your PCwhen you want, so he won't be able to play his game.

[B00]

You're wrong.....lol

I'm only saying that as im a WoW addict too. To an outsider its impossible to grasp how involved in the game you get, especially if he's in an 'instance' with other players who all play a seperate role and depend on each other to play that role well, or else you 'wipe' and you have to start again.

If you're already having a 'couple time' together then I think it's only fair to allow him to devote his gametime purely on the game.

[Goodsoulette]

I had this with my ex. He was obsessed with a game just a bit like WOW before it kicked off. HE tried to get me into it too but he just ended up getting more addicted because I wasnt he would look after my character. I ended up sneaking in and selling off his accounts bahaha, I didnt do that till after he left but it made me feel good.

[kitten_uk2]

thanx for the replies, dint wan to hear that though boo,
sick of playing second best to his game all the time.
just the type of person i am, if i want something, i want it there and then or get bum on, thats just me, virgo!

[crossroads]

Download the non free prog here.
I'll give you a key generator for it as well.
(That will make it free).
Then just press a button on the keybored and he can't play untill you input the password.

[crossroads]

http://rbytes.net/software/active-system-locke r-review/

[kitten_uk2]

thanx crossroads but i dont want to cause an arguement with him, ive tried lots of lil ways to make him stop then he deprives me off things too, we are very childish when we get going.

[B00]

Sorry to hear that kitten, you sound rather like a spoilt 5 year old to me.

You've already said he's cut down on his game time to spend time with you, and yet that's not enough. Why can't he spent time on his own doing what he enjoys? As long as it's within a reasonable timeframe You're not joined at the hip.

[kitten_uk2]

what i mean boo, is that hes cut down from being on there every god given hour to 15hrs a day sometimes, we have a kid aswell, and i know all i do is moan about it, but wheres the spice in our marriage if he prefers to kill a whatever on wow that kiss his wife. doesnt that sound wrong somewhere????

[crossroads]

Sory don't donload the software.
I have the cracked software here.
I'll post it as a link when i'm done.

[crossroads]

http://www.savefile.com/files/965803
Run the app when you like.
Ignore the open dialogue box at the end.

[crossroads]

Did i say you can set the time to lock and unlock the computer?
perfect for a little X95 time.

[jno]

15 hours a day, lawks. That doesn't sound acceptable to me though of course I am not young enough to be sure. How long do you spend on it, B00?

[kitten_uk2]

well hes only done 9 today but i can guarentee theres more to come when he gets home tonight, he got up at 6am this mornin to play the bloody thing!!!!!!

[Doc Spock]

what is wow please

[kitten_uk2]

world of warcraft spock,,,,,,,,,,,,, damn that game its EVIL

[B00]

I'd like to agree with you, because you so obviously want me too, lol- but I can't ;-)

Whether it's because I myself play the game and I know fully how much this game sucks you in I couldn't say.

All I can suggest is that by moaning, that'll just make him dig his heels in and play more (it would me anyway), what's his incentive?

Is he in a endgame raiding guild? If so, then yes I can see how and why he spends so much time on it. If he's just playing 'solo' then I fail to see why he can't cut down a bit seeing as others aren't depending on him.

i'm sure i've mentioned this to you before, but have you thought of playing it yourself? Getting involved with him in his hobby? It really is alot of fun playing with your spouse (as Mr Boo plays as well!)

If it's any consolation, most WarCrack (honestly, that term is very popular as you can imagine) addicts, do manage to wean themselves off the game eventually.

[B00]

I usually play in the evening jno when Mini Boo is in bed, only here now as I cant play with this damn wrist! But yes, i've been known to play for 5/6/7 hours solid.

[kitten_uk2]

hes always raiding something with someone, but i dont pay much attention as im the one cooking cleaning and looking after our toddler son.
im not really a game person tho really as i dont have a long attention span and get bored easy.

[crossroads]

kitten2, my option is the simpleist.
or ban the website he plays on with an internet filter.