The Bible teaches us that God loves sinners, but hates their sin, yours and mine.
Sin entered into the world and corrupted the whole of creation, and, homosexuality, along with all other sexual sin, is an expression of that corruption.
Whether we like it or not, the scriptures are unequivocal about homosexuality, saying it is wrong, that it is sin.
But, Christians should surely follow Christs example and love the sinner, always caring about their welfare, doing good to them and for them, literally being a servant to all?
So, while I detest homosexuality, I do not hate homosexuals, and desire their salvation, just as I desire the salvation of any other sinner like me, who has fell far short of Gods perfect standard of righteousness.
God DOES embrace gays, just as He embraces thieves, adulterers, murderers, and .... me.
Treating homosexuals any different from how I would like to be treated myself, has no place in Christianity.