I am nearly 37 and really find it hard to have an orgasm, some of my friends say they can have one in minutes, I really enjoy sex, but I feel that I am missing out. What can I do ?
relax, dont worry about it, buy a few toys and experiment either alone or with your partner.
If you really enjoy sex without an orgasm then theres no need to be concerned about what your friends think is there?
You need to know yourself before you can let others know what does it for you. There's no shame in sussing yourself out, it'll do wonders for your love life if you can show your man how you like it. Good luck x