The Answer!

[mibn2cweus]

Are you unhappy and upset and believe that some important knowledge crucial to living a joyful life has been denied you? Find the missing piece of the puzzle you've been seeking all your life here

[mibn2cweus]

I also enjoy giving. But I have come to realise that value only survives through reciprocation. That which has not been appreciated has not been properly received but has been lost in the 'bargain'. Reality demands an opposite and equal reaction. We are not obligated to give anything but we are obligated to give back that which is due the giver which in many cases means appreciation for ourselves and what we have to give, even in the absence of life's greatest if not rarest treasure, another worthy recipient.

[naomi24]

I think we all feel like that sometimes, Luna. In my darker moments I've certainly been there, so you aren�t unique in that. I know it isn�t my place to try to change your ways, but all anyone can do when presented with a situation is to try to rationalise it to the best of their ability in the hope of throwing a new light on the problem that may go some way to resolving it.

It�s not convenient to say more at the moment, but I�ll get back tomorrow. Keep positive.


Did the big bang go bang for us?
No, but without us (or someone/thing like us) who would know it went bang?

I love that! :o)

[mibn2cweus]

Who knew it went "Bang!"?
No one.

Given the nature of the 'Big Bang', if it did indeed happen as current evidence suggests, I highly doubt the survival of any eye witnesses to the actual event.

[mibn2cweus]

Who amongst us doesn't suffer with some degree of attention deficit disorder :o)

[naomi24]

Haaaaaaaaaaa! I wouldn't know where to begin looking for some of the stuff you post, Starman.

Luna, What on earth is that all about?

[naomi24]

Luna, I've just seen your answer to me on the R&S thread - and now this latest offering here. Not a lot I want to say really, except you can rest assured I�ll abide by your wishes.

[naomi24]

Frankly, Luna, you have offended me, and no I will not excuse your off-hand tone. Believe it or not, we all have problems, but that does not give us free licence to be rude to other people - especially when they�ve done nothing to warrant it.

[naomi24]

Apologies to you Starman. It had to be said.

Goodnight.

[naomi24]

Oh dear. The victim mentality rears its head again. The simple fact is you were rude and you were wrong, but you don't like hearing it, so now you're throwing another tantrum. Well, I will pussyfoot around you no longer, Luna. It's time you grew up.

If you want to disappear, that's your choice, but at the risk of offering you advice you won't like, the right thing to do would be to go back to that thread in R&S and apologise openly - and if you do go back, take the time to read what I said again. You might just see it in a clearer light.

[naomi24]

Well if you can't think of anything else to say, maybe this will give you something to think about.

For a start, stop saying you've said the wrong thing. We know that, and it's remedied.

Secondly, you say you don't want to be a victim and that's just as well, because you're not a victim, so you have your wish.

Thirdly, get over it, think pleasant thoughts - and change the subject.

Or shall I change the subject? Yes, I think I will. That's a good idea.

Did I tell my fellow Santarians that I have for the past few days been tucked up on my sofa with, what I believe to be, piggy flu? No, I don't believe I did. Clammy, aching, sneezing, coughing, hot drinks, paracetomol.......... and not only am I in quarantine, to cap it all, in bed last night, I felt my face was swelling! Arrrgh! Think of the extra make-up! However, happily when I awoke this morning there was no sign of a snout, so hopefully it's passing. Oink! (Lies prostrate and everso delicately on the couch awaiting an appropriately sympathetic link from Starman. ;o)

[mibn2cweus]

I believe they've located the source of this dreaded disease.

[mibn2cweus]

Good call Luna