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yes that is another problem of which i have been on the phone this evening to with my mother. She does need help in Spain she is bombarded with paper work and i have been out there as much as i can to help her but she is having many problems and dealing with losing a husband a soul friend and father to us. It has been a very difficult time as was so sudden. He died very suddeny after an operation that was to sustain him for at least another 6 months but on his death it caused for his throat to rip in many places from the stent they had out in that all his lungs stomach came out his mouth and other organs from his bowels followed by a dying process. this all happened with in two days - sorry to write this on here but i just want to give some idea of what had to see my father go through as well as see him suffer and lose him. we know that you can bring him on ryan air over here for a proper blessing but there is a lot of paperwork plus my mum and dad are not married but been together for 40 years this makes alot of problems for my mum in terms of pension, banks all sorts. thank you for your kind reply