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Should I Ask Her Out Or Just Move On ?

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HollowSesh | 20:04 Mon 10th Mar 2014 | Family & Relationships
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So I have been close friends with this girl for 2 years and I have a crush on her. I've asked her out 2 times but both timers she kinda played it off but we still talked and were close friends after that was like 3 months ago so im thinking of asking her out again or should I just give up ? I told her how I feel but she never told me straight up how she felt we talked like we are a couple almost all of our friends think we are secretly dating so yea and im also madly in love with her
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I'm afraid it doesn't sound as if she's interested in that way. She knows your feelings, so it would be easy for her to move it forward and she hasn't. I'd advise you to keep away for a while. If anything will make her think again- that will. Good luck.
20:14 Mon 10th Mar 2014
I'm afraid it doesn't sound as if she's interested in that way. She knows your feelings, so it would be easy for her to move it forward and she hasn't. I'd advise you to keep away for a while. If anything will make her think again- that will. Good luck.
move on.
She likes you as a friend, and values you that way - she doesn't want you as a lover, or she would have said so by now. Move on, this is a waste of your energies..
It doesn't sound hopeful to me. Up to you of course but one error I used to make when young was to give those I felt strongly for more chances to say yes than, in retrospect, was useful. If I have a tip it is to ask girls out earlier, rather than develop a crush and then feel really down when the object of your desire isn't interested in a closer relationship. Get the yes/no decision to seeing if a closer relationship is on, much earlier: it's less painful in the longer run.
It sounds like she is treating you like a toy. Give up and find a girl, who will deserves you.
Move on man... Don't let anybody treats you as like puppy!

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