i need advice on a boy!?

[caliceg]

hi i am a teenager without much confidence and there is a boy on my bus that i really like i have never spoken to him before and we go to different schools but i really want to start speaking to him i just dont know how and thats where i need your help if you have any ideas i would be really grateful :)

[lightbulb247]

just be confident and be yourself. but dont hurt yourself or feel bad if he says something negative. however i wish you luck.

[baza]

just say hello when you see him and take it from there.

[caliceg]

thanks guys :)

[EcclesCake]

Will he still be on your bus when you go back after the holidays?

[lightbulb247]

find out if he already has a girlfriend first though lol.

[caliceg]

yes he will eccles cake

[VHG]

He is probably just as nervous about girls as you are about boys.

Think of some simple questions to ask, which school do you go to, where do you live etc and then just sit next to him ask "do you mind if it sit here" and start talking using your simple questions.

He may be glad you spoke to him, and it will go on from there.

[Old_Geezer]

I was never very confident so I'm unsure whether my advice is as valuable as those who were permanently in one relationship or another, but start slowly by smiling, or saying hello. See what response you get. Build up gradually with general chit chat, and if all goes well explore different interests see if there is common ground to form a basis for conversation.

[caliceg]

thanks everyone your answer really helps old geezer

[caliceg]

i would really like as many options on what to do as possible so keep answering please guys, thanks :)

[lucygreenbean]

i don't know!

[caliceg]

thanks anyway lucy neither do i :)

[mazie]

You can't beat a nice smile. Good Luck caliceg x

[caliceg]

thanks mazie x

[Sqad]

Is caliceg and luciegreenbean the same person?

[caliceg]

no shes my sister lol i showed her this website and she created an account :D

[Sqad]

Well cali your advice to her was good advice, I just wondered why you didn't apply it to yourself as the situations were almost identical.

[caliceg]

hmm i'll try it

[BiancaP]

Just make small talk. Find out one of his interests. And then talk to him abuot that