My dog was with me every day, virtually 24/7, for 14 years, he would have given his life to defend me, he cheered me up when I was down, always greeted me with love and happiness, even if I had only been out of the room for 15 minutes. He never rowed or argued with me, never sulked or ignored me.
I have not spoken to one brother for 30 years.
Whose death should upset me the most?