I Am Going Home

[tamaris]

Not been for about 15 years just for a week's holiday. I am gathering up some friends for a reunion.
A girl I went through secondary school with decided she did not want to be friends for some reason, we had been close, I think she just got above herself, but I never found out. She never spoke to me when we started work at the same place.
Anyways I have just gotten the shock of my life , she has just sent me a message through FB saying she was talking to a mutual school friend who said I was visiting and did I remember her.
I don't understand maybe the years have mellowed her but she did treat me bad, what should I do ?

[rockyracoon]

Let bygones be bygones, you'll have a happier reunion. She may have been going through a rough time when she was mean to you, who knows.

[Prudie]

You are both very grown up now. the biatches of the 4th year can grow into really nice women. It depends on how much she hurt you I suppose. I had one friend from school who turned really nasty like that and I'd have no desire to meet her or get an apology, but only that one girl.

[Daffy6543]

She is holding out an olive branch by the sounds of it. Maybe you could tell her you remember her and say it was a shame you fell out as you used to be good friends. Perhaps she wants to apologise and needs an 'in' to open the conversation.

[ummmm]

After this much time has passed I'd act like nothing had ever happened and would be happy to meet her. People change.

[tamaris]

Thank you all for your comments