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o dear part 2
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this is not going exactley well atm. in o dear part 1 i added a bit at the bottom saying wot happened yesterday because we decided to go into the town me n him had a brilliant day and well i think i like him even more but as all friends do they butt in especially my best m8 =) we were on msn as we usually r lol last nite and we were talking to him and she happened to blurt out when i was out of the room "jenni loves u " and "i think u fanci jenni" omg i cud have killed her there on the spot but from he face on teh webcam he kind of looked happy she had said it an i txt him after saying sorri about kirsty saying u like me n stuff ive shot her on the spot so no need 2 worri :) then to my surprise a message lol "don't worri about her it's kool maybe i do ..:) and well i sort of think hes massing with me but men are dificult to understand i need some of ur cb wisdom 2 help me figure out wot hes saying ??? well catch u all later im off 2 work thank god he doesnt come in till 1 2day phew =)
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Like I said, he is flirting with you and obviously likes you, but is teasing you a bit too. He has already said "don't get jealous" so he knows you like him. Your pal has done you a favour here, because now he knows where he stands. You like him, and the ball is in your court. I would still go out at New Year, glam up, but now let HIM do some of the work. You have stated that you like him, he has stated that MAYBE he likes you (??) so let him do the rest. Take some other pals with you at New Year so you don't have to spend the whole time around him. I would play it a bit, show him what he is missing but be delightful. Don't come across as too needy.
If you get him on his own, be straight with him. Say "look, I like you, you know that. But I don't want to play games. If you are not interested then at least tell me so I can move on." That will make him assess what he is doing and put you out of misery a bit.
That's what I would do anyway!
Im an old lady now lol (all of 26) but Something similar happened to me with the "crush of my life, he was always touching and flirting with me and telling me naughty things but he had a girlfriend. He split up with her and for weeks he continued in this way and then when I thought it was safe to broach the subject and tell him how I felt, I had left it too late him and his g/f got back together and were giving it another go. He made it worse by telling me I was so pretty and kind and funny that he couldnt not be that way about me but he owed something to her and had to try. DO NOT LET SOMEONE ELSE GET THEIR TEETH INTO HIM. I consequently waited till I walked away from him and was physically sick with all the nerves etc....
nb. you cant just blurt stuff like that out accidently, she did it on purpose. Why? Does she fancy him too?...
no goodsoulette she doesnt like him to lol.scarlett my mate didnt do me a favour i kind of think he knows shes joking but we flirt so bad n he knowz how 2 push every1 of my buttons, and i reli wish i wud have the nerve to say that 2 his face but i dont know if i cud i reli want it to work out lol and yes i will look fab ive got me n my girlies going into town n helping me pick out a killer outfit that will make him think "bloody hell" ill keep u all updated =)
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