Make no mistake about it gran, these girls know exactly what they are doing, some make a career out of it- so who is exploiting who? It's a straightforward business deal like any other- including getting married, I really fail to see the difference. How often do you hear some girl's mother say ' oooh he's got a nice car and a good job'- whilst some penniless lad gets dismissed as a ' waster' or a 'loser'- this is if anything is just slightly more honest.