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[mollykins]

This is about the following BTW http://www.theanswerb.../Question1009883.html

I don't even know where to begin, maybe best by saying that I've talked to one of the people involved and we've agreed to give it till we get back to school before we tell someone.

But basically I've ruined a friendship with one person although i'm probably better off without them and i said some bad things to two others although they know why I said those things and realise I don't mean them now. I sent them two messages last night/ this morning before the phone call cos I thought i'd come to my senses and thought the whole thing was bull**** and i let them know that.

But 'cos they're the only other people who know about all this, they could be the only other people who could come. i managed to get one of their mobile numbers and talked to them (I think I mentioned this earlier on) cos I hadnt seen them since this all started and i knew that i could get the truth out of them and then I was pretty convinced that they've not made this up and that it's someone else playing the joke on them and i'm even more convinced now.

So I made sure both of them were there although i didn't really wanna face them but I knew i'd have to at some point, and i didn't wanna be with the guy from yesterday alone anymore. So i went to the park and hid nowhere near where we said we would meet, so that I knew that I could make sure it wasn't the guy from yesterday I met first, as i was the first there. Luckily the person who turned up first was the guy I'd said the least worst things to and I made sure I saw him drink the water first before I took a swig.

[Mamyalynne]

Taken seriously or not. The advice was, tell em to get lost.

[tinkerbell23]

Molly, youre havin the ABSOLUTE p1ss taken out you!!

Your 17 going on 18 jeez oh ur an adult this is all playground stuff!!! Seriously!

[Barmaid]

Trim - ridiculous.



You need a brick wall for that ;)

[BAKERS DOZEN]

Trimeresurus - lol

[ASSAM]

How did you feel after a swig of this holy water

[cupid04]

Hello Mollykins, it is very easy to give advice, even harder to take someone elses
advice. We all of us make mistakes in our lives but as long as we learn from them that
is the important thing.

P.s. What has happened to your colourful avatar? xx. Cupid04.

[wolf63]

You really need to stand back from this situation and see that you are getting yourself tied in knots.

Unless any of us meet these friends of you we are only giving answers based on what you are telling us - that isn't going to result in good guidance and advice.

Don't have anything to do with the guys - just avoid them. Don't confront them or be nasty, just tell them you have other things to do.

You need to clear your head and take the time to see what really is happening around you.

People on here don't mean to be unhelpful or nasty - it's just that it is easy to forget how difficult it can be when you are a teenager. There will be counsellors at your college/school who will listen and not judge, they will point you in the right direction.

Some times it's our own brains/minds that are our own worst enemies.

[karenmac60]

Molly, I know it all seems very dramatic and exciting, but you're not Nancy Drew. Either walk away and forget about it or tell an adult.

[supersuezy24]

"For Funks Sake why did I even bother, i thought you guys would be taking this seriously by now, others have done and given some greta advice. "

People aren't taking this seriously because you have gone on and on about it, you talk/type in riddles. People told you these guys were taking the p!ss, people told you to tell some adults, you came back with your usual yeah but no but but routine.
Molly when you post on answerbank, you tend to drag the thread out ridiculously, did you ever hear of quality not quantity?
If people don't take you or your threads seriously it's because you do not take peoples answers onboard, take the p!ss and bring it on yourself.

Maybe people, myself included, would not take the p!ss so much on your threads, if you actually took our advice on board!

[mike11111]

There speaks the voice of reason. Shame it won't be heeded.

[milly143]

"For Funks Sake why did I even bother"

That's how most of us feel after we spend our time trying to give you advice only for it all to be ignored. As this goes to show. Again.

[Prudie]

A valiant attempt suezy, shame it won't work

[supersuezy24]

"There speaks the voice of reason. Shame it won't be heeded. "

"A valiant attempt suezy, shame it won't work"


And THAT is why people take the p*** on her threads!

[ruthann58]

hi molly we have been away hope you are ok xx