nearly 8 weeks on.........

[baggysenior]

if you've read any of my posts you'll know my story. Well peeps, nearly 8 weeks on with no contact and i think i'm doing ok. The days aren't seeming to loom over me that much any more. I'm keeping as busy as can be and smiling. Thanks to the people who gave me much needed advice. I think i was a victim of control and to a degree still am, but i'm gettng there. The only thought i can't seem to shake is that horrible thought of the one where he's with another woman! urgh, i can't shake that, yet i know he's not for me, how does that work? Anyhow people, in the unlikely event he does contact me ever again, i'll refrain from pressing the reply button!

[Count-A-Strong]

Good for you baggy. One day at a time!

[ummmm]

Well done baggy :-) x

The other woman thing...that's normal. I don't like the thought of my Ex with other women.

[carlton23]

40 years ago I was in the same dilemma as you, only it was my first marriage, but now I am very glad she did as now I have been married 44 very happy years to a wonderful woman. So put it out of your mind and live.

[LadyGooGaa]

Hi Baggsy.. well if you managed "no contact" through the christmas/new year period then sounds like you're doing really well. As for those thoughts, wouldn't it be grand if we could put those thoughts into bubbles, watch them float away until they simply burst into thin air.