So how did Darren

[Velvetee]

come to be Heather's baby's dad. I don't get it?

[Velvetee]

Well Gina, when I buried both my parents, we were told the stones couldn't be laid for a year. Perhaps it depends on the kind of earth. In the Chilterns it's very Chalky.

[tonyav]

You are right Velvetee, there is always sometime between burial and being able to have an headstone.

[gina32]

my dad died in the april and stone was laid in october

[netibiza]

Hi tonyav, yes I live in Ibiza and we do not have a 1.8metre dish so cannot get ITV or BBC so I have to download it from the internet as soon as it's put on which is usually the next day. I get used to knowing who got kicked out of xfactor etc before i actually see it!

[netibiza]

...and here we are buried in the walls (niches) and the headstone is cemented on right away if one can afford it, stops the buggars escaping I suppose!!!