should i go for it??

[fifi08]

iv known this guy for years, since school. iv always liked him but last week i saw him at a party and im sure he was giving me the eye, im so tempted to send him a message but i dont know what to say without looking an idiot, or even if i should, i dont want to ruin the friendship we do have
what would you do??

[CheekyChops]

I would have thought that if he liked you then a party would have been the perfect opportunity to make a move and get it together.

[dodedo]

all you have to ask is if he enjoyed the party and go from there, remember if you don't try you'll never know and then you could regret not sending that message when you see him with some-one else

[fifi08]

it was my brothers party so i had all my family there, and he is the shy type so i couldnt imagine him making the first move.
ill try and build the courage up and send it today
wish me luck xx

[4getmenot]

the freidnhip you have?? When you said last week I saw him at a party just sounds to me like someone you bump into every now and then. Just ask him.

[ummmm]

Just say something like...

Great party, haven't seen you for a while. We should meet up for beers and a catch up sometime.

See what he responds....

[sqad617]

John/Jim/Fred....whatever his name is.

"Lovely to see you again, fond memories of school eh?
How about a chat on Friday, 1.30 the Plough. Should be quite a laugh.

fifi 08