I'll tell you what I think is mad.
If a man cheats on a woman, he's a scumbag and a rat.
If a woman cheats on a man it's his fault for neglecting her.
If a cheated woman wrecks a mans' property, it's his fault and "you go girl!"
If a cheated man does the same, he's a nut and a lunatic.
If she was such an expert she'd have been able to help them, sounds to me like she fcuked up, got sacked and needed money. Quickly!
Answer, write a book and say it's all the fault of men.
Redhead if all you're kissing is frogs, change ponds..