Am I Being Selfish?

[abbeyleigh]

I met this guy on a dating site and he lives with his dad but don't want to move out as he is sick and I'm looking to settle down with the one and start a family which I can't do obviously if he wants to live with his dad, does this sound selfish?

[Bobbisox1]

You sure as hell have a busy life Abbeyleigh

[cashier]

Yes, it does. Has it not occured to you that you might not be 'the one' for him?

[bednobs]

how long have you been seeing him?
what is the nature of the dads sickness?

[Neveracrossword]

Yes, extremely.

[douglas9401]

Just popped in to raise an eyebrow.

Cheerio.

[johnk]

Is he sick or is it his Dad?

[emmie]

yes...

[naomi24]

When did you meet him? Sounds like fairly recently.

[barry1010]

Is this the guy you met 7 weeks ago or have you been cheating?

[bednobs]

1) there is nothing wrong with knowing what you want, and getting what you want out of a relationship
2) depending on how long you've been seeing him - he could be that person youre looking for but he might not be.
3) if his dad is sick, is he going to recover? Die? stay stably unwell?
you'll be a bit annoyed if you split, then the dad gets better and he can then move out

[calmck]

How long have you known this guy. If his father is sick and needs help then he has a responsibility to his dad. How old are you. If you cannot accept that at this time his father comes first then you have to consider if you are mature enough you are ready for a family

[Peter Pedant]

yeah I agree - busy girl
go on looking