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husb is day 3 on increased dose. No change yet obviously. He has also agreed to have some counselling (which totally gobsmacked me as I expected the suggestion to be met with resistance).
Very proud of him and praying he gets the "right" counsellor to hear and understand him. He had a tele appt this morning and this person will transfer his care to the appropriate member of the team.
It's hard as There are also mitigating circumstances atm - incl that we are leaving our current live in job in a few months (likely October) as had given in notice (long story - but I suspect that the working environment here was contributing to husbands low mood...not the entire thing but deffo not helping.)
I just want him to be himself again and not mr angry drinker. :(. Sad trying to help a loved one when we can't see what's going on inside their mind. He's a lovely man inside (I KNOW that) but is so hard to live with atm.