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eve1974 | 12:26 Tue 11th May 2021 | ChatterBank
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Ergh I feel awful - and stressed. My employer made me aware of something work related and asked me to keep it to myself. I presumed INCORRECTLY that her trusted PA knew and mentioned this in conversation. She didn’t. My fault entirely. I’m quite concerned tbh. I won’t be fired I know that for sure but it makes me look very unreliable
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I work for a wealthy individual on a private estate
Have you told your employer this ?
there was a clue in the instruction 'keep it yourself'
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Employer was in the room at the time.

I said “I presume she (pa) knows about xyz”?

And employer just went “no”!

Whereupon I tried to cover it talking about something related.... but I didn’t fo a good cover up!

I just presumed incorrectly that her pa knew! The pa usually knows everything!
*to*
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Aelmp totally .... and I’m in the wrong 100%!!!!

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I take the blame. I feel awful
Oh dear, not judging you at all but it could spell mistrust Eve , good luck
I would have thought that her PA would know also, but if you just apologise and explain this, surely it will be ok ?
A clear and sincere apology is the best you can do at this point really.
LOL......no big deal.
We have all done or said something stupid at some time and it will soon be forgotten.
You will have it on YOUR mind for a time but unlikely that it will be on anyone else's mind.
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It dies indeed make me look as tho I can’t be trusted Bobbi :(.

And burly yes I assumed pa knows but

The gist of it is she didn’t


Just beforehand I’d needed to fob off other staff member grilling as staff suspect change is afoot (thars what the secret is about) I think I was already rattled because I felt like I’d needed to fib to a colleague to say if didn’t know anything
I agree with Sqad. And stuff like this, makes me happier than ever that I am now out of the workplace !
I really wouldn't feel so bad although understand why you do. I've been a PA, including at director level, for several years now and one thing every PA knows is no-one, absolutely no-one, can keep work related gossip or secrets quiet - except perhaps a PA! She will have come across this many a time, she may have been curt because she didn't know and was indignant that she didn't. It will all blow over.
// A clear and sincere apology is the best you can do at this point really.//
agreed
and learn from it - you must be young -- - so young

easy in med. Everything is confidential from the get -go. Think about telling a parent about an abortion - someone else's like their daughter!

so look penitent...

in the long term, alot of it is known anyway, and in the long term very little is very important ( Stanley Baldwin)

Here this very day, in X - ville, Young master A is drying out at home and I have just seen him making a drug deal. He was walking in flip flops and the dealer had a nice car. lesson there. So clearly he er isnt drying out. I have no intention of telling the mother.

same muvva: her grandaughter this time is giving a runaway a safe house . I did warn her that one of MY muvvuz frenz did time for exactly that. 1965
https://www.newspapers.com/clip/3594835/dr-rachel-pinney-daughter-of-general/

no one learns
Eve, don't be paranoid. She wouldn't be his PA if he didn't trust her.

It's happened to me loads of times. I'm sure he'll understand.
oh firing people
yeah the work force probably knows all ready
relax
Now I am not breaking confidentiality when i state that boris was driven around to St Thomas A+E instead of an ambulance because he was blue and they thought he was gonna die .....

same for Trump - blue and mad - - - madder

it all er blows over
Wonder if your employer was testing your integrity, Eve?

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