Take Heart - only about 50% of anglo saxons hear the dead relatives so you are in the 50% that dont
I keep quiet about now it as I was awarded a visit to the psychiatrist ( who was Iranian and clearly didnt know ( until I told her ) that the English have this - - - er - - characteristic, or quirk. )
I reckon it is why the anglo were so easy to convert - - in er 600 AD. easy - your relatives arent in Valhalla, but heaven and they are waiting to speak to you,,,,
Dont feel bad about it - oh god does any one have dead relatives that nag them just like they did in life?